Saturday, September 30, 2006

Of Tragedies & Hidden Blessings

I'm sitting in the living room of our Tita's house as I write this. I'm charging my cell phone, my PDA, my laptop and my camera all at the same time. And this is because, yes, my friends, more than 48 hours after the strongest typhoon to hit Manila in 11 years, we still do not have electricity. We came here to take our baths and get reacquainted with appliances that run on electrical power-- the TV, aircon, radio... and the REF! I'm getting ahead of myself. There were actually worst things that happened to us in the middle of Milenyo's rage. Everyone will have their story to tell and here's mine...

I wake up late Thursday morning in a panic. I remember there is a meeting set at 10:30am in the office, an hour’s drive away from our house. I glance at my phone and see a number of messages unread. One from Carlo asking if I’m going to work, another from an event manager advising that an IBM event is postponed, and then a series from IBM Security advising all IBMP employees to stay indoors and work from home due to the worsening weather. I say a quick prayer of thanks and go back to sleep.

At 9am, I stand up to answer a call from Lissa and hastily call Mon to make sure he goes home soon as the weather clears up. I roll my eyes realizing there is no electricity: so much for working at home.

I eat breakfast and take my time to go thru the paper. After all, there is not much to do, is there? At around this time, the wind is starting to give me the creeps. I hear a crash coming from the 2nd floor and see in dismay a framed painting I did back in high school lying on the hard bathroom floor, its glass broken. Darn, I say, additional expense!

I get a text from Carlo that Fay's X-Trail just got hit by a concrete block. It will be hours after I text her that I will receive a reply telling me she was actually in the vehicle when it happened. God was gracious as she is not hurt.

After breakfast, I chat with mom and lounge around. A few minutes later, I hear a loud roar – much like the sound of revving car engines. I wander towards the middle of our stairs and look up towards our huge glass window. The sound seems to be coming from there. Above me, the chandelier is swinging a little more than usual. I hope it doesn’t get broken by the wind, I pray. The wind is really angry for some reason!

My mom suddenly calls me downstairs to the AV room to show me something. I hesitate for a second, then walk towards the room. Less than 10 seconds later: we hear a deafening crash, shattering glass and the howling wind getting even louder. I quickly look out of the room and see our househelp, Marie, running towards the room with blood trickling down the side of her face and her hands. It turns out the whole frame of the cathedral window, all 15’x9’ of it (yes, it’s more than twice my height), surrendered to the strong winds and went crashing down on the stairs, hitting the banisters and breaking all its glass panels. The blow is so strong that the pressure shatters the wall window by the dining room --- more than 10 feet away from the bottom of the stairs.

The rain quickly enters our house, drenching our tiles and wooden, antique furniture.

We wait for some 15 agonizing minutes for the rain and the wind to quiet down. As we hit the eye of the storm, we quickly survey the damage and start cleaning up the incredible mess that this unfortunate incident brought. There is broken glass everywhere, from huge, plate-size ones to the miniscule, almost invisible, pieces. We collect almost 3 sacks-full of debris. The chandelier is broken and the window frame is grotesquely sitting across the banister, deadly, broken panes jutting out from its sides.

We incurred some PhP200K (roughly $3.8K) worth of damages as a result. I guess thinking about it, it would have been a small price to pay compared to what it would be had I stayed a few seconds longer on those stairs. People keep telling me my Guardian Angel was working overtime last Thursday. There is no doubt in my mind, and the thought overwhelms me every time I think about it.

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After a series of amateur pusoy games by candlelight, my sister, Paula, my brother, Ivan and I (my other sister, Kaye got herself stranded in her friend's house in Quezon City) went up to our roof deck that evening. We marveled at the incredible blackness of the night. Everywhere we looked there was complete darkness, save for some flickering candles in some neighbors' open windows.

It is true that after every storm the stars seem brighter and the skies clearer-- a cliché, but very true.

I woke up to a beautiful & breathtaking dawn the next morning.
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cheers!
the sun after every storm!
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Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Those Blog Things Again

What Kind of Seducer Are You?

Really now. I'm sure my friends would have a lot to say about this, hahaha!

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cheers! having an excuse to wake up late on Wednesdays
it's ok... if you have to get some of your clothes altered because you're in between sizes!
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Saturday, September 23, 2006

"Sex is in the heels!"

Said Lola (Chiwetel Ejiofor), the feisty Simon in drag who loves red (NOT burgundy! --- oh horrors!), 2.5ft thigh-high, 4-inch kinky stiletto boots.

What is it about sexy shoes that makes women drool over it? What is it about stiletto heels that makes you wish you own those gorgeous pairs? ... even if, as my friend, Ia said, "You can probably wear them for 2 mins... and that's it."

Based on a true story, Kinky Boots is about a very proper, very straight, very traditional 4-generation Englishman's shoe factory that is threatened to go out of business if Charlie Price (Joel Edgerton), the often hapless heir of the factory, does not do something bold and drastic.

Enter the brilliant, vodka-shooting ("Helps you forget the pain"), red-obsessed ("It's the color of sex... and fear and anger and signs that say, Do Not Enter!"), dreamer-slash-jaded Queen-of-the-Night, Lola. She inspires Charlie, including the half-wit chauvinist pigs in the factory, to go out there and embrace change, to dare not to care about what people think... to BE a man.

It is ironic that it should come from a transvestite dressed in a bright blue silk blouse and matching stilettos with bejewelled straps, but as Charlie said towards the end of the movie, "... if it involves being brave, then you are more of a man than I'll ever be."

Touche.


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Lola, Kinky Boots: Thing is, Mike, ask any woman what she likes most in a man. Compassion, tenderness and sensitivity. Traditionally the female virtues. Perhaps what women secretly desire is a man who is fundamentally a woman.

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cheers!
Friday night dinner and movie with the girls

it's ok...
if you waited 15 mins for your Butcher's Snack lunch order only for the waiter to tell you that today, they actually do not have Butcher's Snack available

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*photos taken from IMDb

Wednesday, September 20, 2006

I've done 72 out of 125 Crazy Things


Got this from Aleta. How do YOU score?!

Level 1
(*) smoked a cigarette ( ) smoked a cigar (*) done weed ( ) kissed a member of the same sex (*) drank alcohol
SO FAR: 3


Level 2
(*) been in love (*) been dumped ( ) shoplifted ( ) been fired ( ) been in a fist fight SO FAR: 5

Level 3
(*) snuck out of a parent's house (*) had feelings for someone who didn't have them back ( ) been arrested ( ) made out with a stranger (*) gone out on a blind date SO FAR: 8

Level 4 (*) had a crush on an older person (*) skipped school (*) seen someone/something die
SO FAR: 11


Level 5
(*) had/have a crush on one of your FRIENDSTER friends ( ) been to Paris ( ) been to Spain (*) been on a plane (*) thrown up from drinking
SO FAR: 14


Level 6
(*) eaten Sushi ( ) been snowboarding ( ) met someone BECAUSE of myspace ( )been mosh pitting
SO FAR: 15


Level 7
( ) been in an abusive relationship (*) taken pain killers (*) love/like someone right now (*) laid on your back and watched cloud shapes go by ( ) made a snow angel
SO FAR: 18


Level 8
( ) had a tea party (*) flown a kite (*) built a sand castle ( ) gone puddle jumping (*) played dress up
SO FAR: 21


Level 9 (*) jumped into a pile of leaves ( ) gone sledding (*) cheated while playing a game (*) been lonely (*) fallen asleep at work/school
SO FAR: 25


Level 10 (*) used a fake/someone else's ID (*) watched the sun set (*) felt an earthquake ( ) killed a snake
SO FAR: 28


Level 11
(*) been tickled (*) been robbed/vandalized ( ) robbed someone (*) been misunderstood ( ) pet a reindeer
SO FAR: 31


Level 12
(*) won a contest ( ) been suspended from school (*) had detention ( ) been in a car/motorcycle accident
SO FAR: 33


Level 13
(*) had/have braces (*) eaten a whole pint of ice cream in one night (*) had deja vu (*) danced in the moonlight
SO FAR: 37


Level 14
(*) hated the way you look ( ) witnessed a crime ( ) pole danced (*) questioned your heart (*) been obsessed with post-it notes
SO FAR: 40


Level 15
(*) squished barefoot through the mud (*) been lost (*) been to the opposite side of the world (*) swam in the ocean (*) felt like you were dying
SO FAR: 45


Level 16
(*) cried yourself to sleep (*) played cops and robbers (*) recently coloured with crayons/colored pencils/markers (*) sang karaoke (*) paid for a meal with only coins
SO FAR: 50


Level 17 (*) done something you told yourself you wouldn't (*) made prank phone calls ( ) laughed until some kind of beverage came out of your nose (*) kissed in the rain
SO FAR: 53


Level 18
(*) written a letter to Santa Clause ( ) been kissed under a mistletoe (*) watched the sun set with someone you care/cared about (*) blown bubbles (*)Made a bonfire on the beach
SO FAR: 57


Level 19
(*) crashed a party ( ) have traveled more than 5 days with a car full of people (*) gone roller skating/ blading (*) had a wish come true ( ) humped a monkey (what the?!)
SO FAR: 60


Level 20
(*) worn pearls ( ) jumped off a bridge ( ) screamed "penis" at a football game. ( ) swimming with dolphins
SO FAR: 61


Level 21
( ) got your tongue stuck to a pole/freezer/ice cube ( ) kissed a fish (*) worn the opposite sex clothes (*) Sat on a roof top
SO FAR: 63


Level 22
(*) screamed at the top of your lungs (*) can do a cartwheel (does 10 years ago count?) (*) talked on the phone for more than 3 hours (*) stayed up all night
SO FAR: 67


Level 23
( ) picked and ate an apple right off the tree (*) climbed a tree (*) had/been in a tree house ( ) aren't scared to watch scary movies alone
SO FAR: 69


Level 25
( ) believe in ghosts (*) have/had more then 30 pairs of shoes ( ) gone streaking (*) been in jail (visiting people in jail counts, right?) (*)sneaked out of someone else's house
SO FAR: 72

Just like Aleta, I scored 72 out of 125... which makes me just 57.6% crazy. I guess I'm not as crazy as I thought. YET! ;-)

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Anilao Weekend Post Interrupted

Was planning to do an all-out entry about my weekend in Anilao but the quarter-end rush is really getting in the way! By the time I get home, all I can do is lounge around, watch an episode or two of House (more on this next time!), and sleep.

This is what I've got in the meantime. Promise to post more pictures and a more sensible entry about our Anilao adventure this weekend!


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cheers! meeting new people & having a fun weekend with friends
it's ok... if you haven't been going to the gym for almost 2 weeks now!
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thanks to Jeanettesky for putting together our pictures!

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Random Echoes

"Wealth and abundance are what remain after our needs are provided for. The less needs, the more wealth and abundance."

- Jim Paredes,
Humming in my Universe

Wednesday, September 13, 2006

Remembering John Tucker

John Tucker Must Die is all about girls banding together to take their sweet revenge on a serial cheater. Yummy Jesse Metcalfe of the Desperate Housewives fame plays the ultra-cool, demi-god, big-man-on-campus, John Tucker. The movie was not really all that great, but quite hilarious at various points. For girls who's had their share of dates with the John Tuckers of this world, this movie was all about picking up the pieces of the heart he's broken and getting wildly even. It makes you lean back on your seat, wishing you had the guts to do those things to him.

I dated a John Tucker once back in college. Let's make like Maalala Mo Kaya, give him an alias and call him... John.

John wasn't dangerously handsome nor had he a body of a model. More of nice boy, pretty boy, cute. Girls would almost swoon when he walks by the corridors ("You mean he's actually on this side of the building. On this floor?!"), would even write vandalisms about him in the ladies bathroom ("John, ang gwapo mo! Beep me"). There were talks that he had a girlfriend in a different university and but seemed to be dating another girl from Archi. He was a player, but no one really dared to prove it. Suffice it to say that he was a heartthrob, but didn't look like a heartbreaker. And there's nothing like a boy with a cheater reputation treating you like you are the only girl in his world.

Against my better judgment, I silenced those rumors and eventually allowed myself to fall for him. Back then I used to think I was super special when John would write me poems, give me cards, send me flowers, wait for me, pick me up & carry my books ("He could've picked any girl, but he picked me! Me!"). What a sweet, pretty couple you make, people would say. In college, it was all about that, wasn't it? Trophy boyfriend alert!

We lasted for a year and a half. By college standards and by his standards, that was a record. Whoo-pee-doo. The reason for our break up? He was two-timing me. Big surprise.

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cheers! watching a brain-less movie after a long day at work
it's ok... to be mean once in a while
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photos taken from John Tucker's myspace.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Quarter End Blues

There's a fine line between playing hard ball and making an emotional decision.

Seeing that she is, in fact, pushed against the wall: low internal sellers mindshare, weak & few business partners, sagging confidence in her product, and a market share that leaves much to be desired, you summon every ounce of patience & compassion to still understand her and help her.

She is brilliant, that much everyone knows... but she can be quite difficult to work with especially at times when the going gets tough, push comes to shove, the shit hits the fan, etc etc.

Not losing your cool when she loses hers put things in perspective. Sometimes she acts based on insufficient info she carries regarding the problem. I try to then widen her understanding on the facts she may have missed. Sometimes she would just decide based on the assumption that everyone is greedy and against her. It is then that I remind her that losing this deal means more than losing $10K worth of sales. It may mean losing a partner than can bring in a third of your revenue targets this quarter. It may mean giving away yet another deal to the competitor, and possibly another point added to their already imposing market share.

In instances like these, don't even entertain the thought of daring her to make risky decisions. She will definitely take you up on that dare. She loves to play tough, but little does she realize that her toughness beguiles irrational decision-making and a sad if-you-don't-like-me-i-don't-like-you-too attitude of an eight year old.

Yes, $10K may be small beer compared to a the million-dollar opportunity another partner is working on elswhere. But the strain in the relationship, the questionable values she may be projecting, and the reputation of her brand management skills put in question will be worth much, much more than $10K.

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cheers! 3 hours spent at Gloss getting a mani, pedi and a wax job
it's ok... if you had to wait another 30 mins online to talk to him (at least you got yourself blog-updated!)
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Monday, September 11, 2006

To Quote My Favourite Painter


"Love many things, for therein lies true strength, and whosoever love much, performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is done well."

-- Vincent van Gogh

Sunday, September 10, 2006

Weekend Friends


Spent the rest of my weekend in bed with the latest Cosmo, a box of tissues and lots of liquids on my bedside table. Augh... I hate being sick especially since I'm so looking forward to diving next Saturday! To top it all off, I had tons in my to-do list that I'm instead pushing to finish tomorrow. Sigh....

Must get better. Must stop this crazy cold from taking over!

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cheers! new cotton sateen sheets for my bed
it's ok... if you drove all the way to dream maker only to fiind out that they're asking you to fit the wrong dress (because yours is not even made!)
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Friday, September 08, 2006

To be 33 & Drunk with Pale Pilsen

I have a really miserable hangover. Note to self: drinking red wine, San Mig Light, white wine and San Miguel Pale Pilsen (from cheers to tagay, to cheers, then tagay again!) is a bad bad idea. I want to sleep off my nausea but I have to work and pretend to host this training session... aughhh... Looking out the window, I see the greens of Malarayat Golf & Country Club and I wish I'm out there enjoying it instead of being stuck here in training!

Later, cousin Lisa & I are driving to downtown Lipa to visit our grandparents and stay the night. I'm so looking forward to sleep, sleep, sleep and lotsa food!!

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cheers!
2 days out of the office!
it's ok...
if a guy you just met thought you were 6 years older than him when in fact, you're a year younger. Just blame it on alcohol, bad taste and... his limited intellectual capacity!
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Tuesday, September 05, 2006

And they keep on fallin'

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cheers!
finally able to go to the gym today... must work doubly hard for the fitting on saturday!
it's ok...
if you braved the rain and got yourself wet as you scramble towards your car -- only to have the heavy pour tone down to a drizzle 5 mins after you get in.
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Must load up on Vitamin C!

Monday, September 04, 2006

Missing Pluto

I was supposed to write about this 2 weekends ago but sleep and laziness got in the way. The demotion of Pluto as a planet caused quite a stir: some are actually joining Save Pluto campaigns, running photoshop contests, while others are cashing in on this historic happening.

After so many years of being almost ignored (c'mon, we only know Pluto because of his association with the Little Mouse in a tux), Pluto suddenly becomes famous. It is a sad event. However in my opinion, we should give it the mourning that it is due, and then we move on. This latest news, to me, is just an affirmation that there is still so much out there that is waiting to be discovered. Current technologies in science & astronomy have helped us get to know the outside world more than we could ever dreamed of ten, twenty years ago.

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"Science and understanding change, but this change is not so earth-shattering... The solar system right now is exactly
like it was 24 hours ago. Nothing's changed in that time period -- just the name by which we define each of these things." -- Whitsett, President-Elect of the National Science Teachers Association.

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On a side note, the clarified definition of a planet is now as follows: a celestial body that is in orbit around the sun, has sufficient mass for its self-gravity to overcome rigid body forces so that it assumes a ... nearly round shape, and has cleared the neighborhood around its orbit.

My, my, there seems to be one or two people in the office who fit the definition PERFECTLY.

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cheers!
getting a massage and a facial after a
Barely-Breathing Monday Morning
it's ok...
if you spent more than an hour on the road on your way to work. At least you got to spend time praying and relishing the last remains of the weekend in your head.

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images lifted from cafepress.com


Sunday, September 03, 2006

39 months and counting!

Today we celebrate our 39th month as buds. Almost 13 of which, we spent in a thousands-of-miles-12-hour-difference, long-distance relationship. Being in this set-up taught me a whole lot of things: maturity, patience, independence, understanding and yes, TRUST! It's one of the most difficult things I've gotten myself into, for sure. But is it all worth it? Most definitely.

Then again, we're never really apart, are we, bud? :o)


That's Raymond and I enjoying the sunset at the Stanford University campus sometime in May of this year. We dropped by Silicon Valley on our way back to San Mateo from the vineyards of Napa Valley.

I cannot wait to share more sunsets like this one with my bud. :-)

Thanks to fd's Flickr Toys!

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cheers! watching his reaction as he views the US buds video you made especially for him
it's ok... even if it's soo hot & humid that it feels more like the middle of summer, and not 4 months before Christmas!
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Saturday, September 02, 2006

Which Care Bear Are You?

Thanks to Gen, I discovered Care-a-Lot online! Brings back giddy childhood memories... Now if I can only find Rainbrow Brite and Sprite online too...


I'm apparently Funshine Bear! Needless to say, I always thought here name was Sunshine Bear. Sa laki ng tenga ko...Tsk, tsk!

My super Friday night

The past week was all about stress and pressure that as early as 3:30 on Friday afternoon, I was already zoning out and itching to get out of the office. Unfortunately, I had to endure 2 more meetings and a telecon with my Singaporean vertical. At 5:00pm, I was already surfing Net, even with almost a dozen documents open in Excel and a few more dozens of Notes unread. You know that feeling when you're literally sick of work? Well, little OC, hardworking me almost felt like throwing up if I had to open another email and answer another phone call! Pag tinamaan talaga ako ng katamaran, wala talaga akong kwenta!

I ended up watching My Super Ex-Girlfriend with Marje. It was almost a B-movie with its cliche-ridden script and yeah-right-storyline, but we had a hilarious time witnessing scene after scene of how a jealous, obsessive, neurotic superhuman deals with a broken heart --- throwing your car into orbit, spelling D-I-C-K on your forehad with laser beams and taking time to haul a Great White Shark out of the Pacific and into your bedroom! Clueless, goody-two-shoes ex-boyfriends beware!

At 8:30, I headed straight to Jack's Loft to have dinner and drinks with some work girlfriends. The girls had their cocktails of choice: Tequila Sunrise, Four Seasons and red wine and I had my... San Mig Light. I quickly ordered a Strawberry Daiquiri after finishing the bottle! The usual girl talk started with talks about the crush-ables (or lack of 'em) in the office, guys that seem pink enough to fit right in our sisterhood, and the cute outfits in The Devil Wears Prada.

Ended my well-deserved, relaxing Friday night with Vodka tonic and easy conversation with officemate, Tristan and his NBI-agent friend from way back in high school. Our topics ranged from university fraternities, long-distance relationships, airsoft and paintballs, cheating in a relationship and even the "horrors and realities" of transexuality.

When you talk to men who are not trying to put their best foot forward with you, you are amused by how they can be so candid and natural with their opinions...

"When a girl cheats, there is always a reason and a motivation behind it: to get back at you, to show you are not giving her enough attention, etc, etc. On the other hand, when a guy cheats, there usually isn't any. And that is the one thing that girls will never understand about men. It is just how we are made."

"Women are really vengeful by nature!"

"It's not that I don't trust you: I do. But I don't trust those jerks hanging out with you."

"For example, you had a one-night stand. Do you confess? Or do you subscribe to that notion, 'What she doesn't know won't hurt me!'" "A man will NEVER admit his infidelity unless caught red-handed... Why give the girl a reason to doubt when the affair is over and will never happen again?"

No wonder Jenny Johnson calls on her super powers deal with her boyfriend.

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He broke her heart. She broke his everything.

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cheers! No-plan-Friday nights that start with a no-brainer movie and ends with drinky-drinks coupled with interesting conversations
it's ok... if you didn't finish your work before leaving the office. You deserve a break!
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photo taken from mysuperex.com